i mean, i dunno... would anyone in their right mind spoil something perfect just to start things over again? would 2 people in love be considered to be in the right frame of mind? all these thoughts makes me think about what makes people decide to screw around, to put their everyuthing 2 people work so hard at buiilding, their perfect lifes, in jeopardy just to feel the thrill for just a few minutes.

just like the girl who wrote in to thelma in the sunday papers about how she is in a relationship and theya re both so in love. then there's this guy who's attracted to her at the office and tries to woo her and charm her. so for the fun of it, she thought she'd play with hime and dump him. she begins to let this guy believe he can go after her despite him knowing that she's already spoken for. so she leads him on, and soon one thing led to another they begin sleeping together. what's worse, now, she can't seem to get him out of her mind, but she knows she still loves her man (who is still in the dark!) poor fool. and to add salt to the wound, the new guy wants her to leave the old guy who is INNOCENT because he can't stand her being with another man.
hey, listen here... you are THE OTHER MAN in this triangle, nephew. take it from me, you are in the wrong.
but then again, many may content that what's right or wrong in love? as they say, all's fair in love and war. at least that's how i remember people saying it...